Setting financial goals as a family isn’t just about numbers on a spreadsheet—it’s about creating a shared vision for your future and teaching your children valuable lessons about planning, patience, and perseverance.
When everyone’s involved in the journey, those goals become something to celebrate together, not just another item on your endless to-do list.
The beauty of family financial goals is that they lighten the mental load. Instead of one person carrying the weight of financial planning alone, you’re building a team approach where everyone feels included, valued, and excited about what you’re working towards together.
Why Family Financial Goals Matter
When you set financial goals as a family, you ensure that everyone is involved.
Now, my children are a little too young to fully understand, but we make sure they understand the consequences of our financial decisions. For example: “We are moving house this year, so we are saving all our pennies for the move.”
But having my husband and I aligned means that the mental load and the onus is lifted from myself. We’re in this together.
For example, in 2024 our goals were:
- Increase our emergency fund (after a couple of years of renovations and getting married, plus two children at full-time nursery. You know…!)
- £20 pm into our children’s Junior ISAs
Last year, in 2025, we shifted our goals to:
- Enjoyment pot! After a tough few years, we wanted to ensure that we were able to say yes to lots of opportunities and go on holiday
- Moving house pot
- £30 pm into our children’s Junior ISAs
My son (age 3) has his own ‘money goal’—to buy a PawPatrol bath toy. He has a moneybox and he can earn ‘coins’ for good behaviour and doing jobs. He loves counting his coins and finding out how long until he can go to the shops. These small moments are teaching him that good things take time and planning.
Getting Started: The Family Financial Meeting
The first step is bringing everyone together for a family financial chat. My husband and I like to do this every January, but then have regular check-ins. Often whilst walking the dog, as it’s a relaxed atmosphere away from distractions.
In January, we agree on a few key things we want to focus on, and we rank them in order of priority. We also pre-agree a bonus split. If any of us get a bonus, we know that 50% will go to X and 25% will go to Y, with the other 25% for the individual to enjoy themselves.
Choosing Your 2-3 Priority Goals
Once we’ve chosen our goals, we make them measurable and achievable.
Too many goals dilute your efforts and make it harder to see real progress.
Look for goals that:
- Matter to multiple family members
- Feel achievable within your timeframe
- Excite everyone when you talk about them
- Balance short-term wins with long-term planning
For example, your three goals might be:
- Build an emergency fund of £3,000 – giving your family security and peace of mind. This would translate to £250 pm.
- Save £1,200 for a summer holiday – creating memories you’ll treasure forever. If you start in January, that’s £200 pm for six months, taking you to summer.
- Start investing £50 pm in your children’s Junior ISAs – giving them a financial foundation for their 18th birthday.
Notice how these goals serve different purposes? One provides security, one creates joy, and one builds for the future. That balance keeps everyone motivated throughout the year! In my opinion, life is for living, so fun needs to be incorporated into these goals.
Making Goals Visual and Tangible
Abstract numbers don’t inspire children (or most adults, honestly). Make your goals visible and exciting.
I’m a numbers girlie, so writing everything down on a spreadsheet every month fills me with joy. But my husband likes pictures, so I make a pie chart. My son, being only three, loves to count his coins.
Find what works for your family and make your progress something you can see and celebrate together.
Creating Your Action Plan Together
Goals without plans remain wishes. Sit down together and work out how you’ll reach each goal. Be specific and realistic.
For your emergency fund goal, you might decide to:
- Save £250 pm from your monthly budget
- Add any birthday money or bonuses to specific pots
- Review spending on subscriptions and redirect £50 pm you’re not really using
For your children’s investments, you might:
- Automate their monthly contributions so it’s not another thing on your to-do list
- Ask grandparents to contribute for birthdays instead of toys
- Add any pocket money your children choose to save
The key is making it automatic wherever possible. When savings happen without thinking, you’re far more likely to stick with them.
Checking Progress Throughout the Year
Set regular check-in dates—we like to do it weekly on the day we work from home together on our dog walk. But they don’t need to be that often.
It’s important to celebrate the wins!
Don’t wait until you’ve reached the finish line to celebrate. Mark the journey with small celebrations at key milestones:
- Reached 25% of your emergency fund? Have a special family day out
- Hit £600 towards your holiday? Look at destination photos together and start planning activities
If you’re falling short on one goal, don’t panic or give up. Talk about it as a family. Maybe you need to adjust the timeline, find creative ways to save more, or shift priorities slightly. Life happens, and that’s okay.
Teaching Children Through the Process
The real magic of family financial goals isn’t just the money you save—it’s the lessons your children absorb along the way.
Research from the Money and Pensions Service reveals that children who receive meaningful financial education are more likely to feel confident about managing their money, become active savers, and develop positive attitudes towards finances. Yet only 47% of UK children receive this vital education, leaving 5.4 million without the money skills they’ll need.
Even more striking? Cambridge University research shows that money habits are formed by age 7—which means the conversations and lessons we have with our young children today are shaping their financial futures for decades to come.
Through setting family financial goals together, your children are learning that:
- Good things take time and planning
- Small, consistent actions lead to big results
- Families work together to achieve shared dreams
These lessons will serve them far beyond childhood, shaping how they approach their own financial futures as adults. As my children grow older, they’ll be included in these conversations. I look forward to showing them their Junior ISAs and discussing their plans for the future and how investing works best if you do it little and often.
When December Arrives
We always do a yearly wrap-up and work out what worked and what didn’t. But since we’ve been doing this (about four years now), our life has changed, and we feel so much more in control of our finances.
And as for the children, the best gifts you can give them aren’t things—they’re the skills, habits, and memories that will serve them for a lifetime.
It’s time to gift differently.
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